Hey, hey! I am 39, father of two, married a decade and looking for a best friend with a mutual appreciation for each other’s faces. I am 5’8 and around 150 pounds with blonde hair and blue eyes. I live in the Hudson Valley near northern NJ and parts of PA and CT.I am looking for somebody I can talk to every day and see every two to three weeks. I am an excellent texter, chatty and like gabbing about the day or whatever random things come up. I am available most weekend evenings and travel for work so I could even talk on the phone. I like conversation and being challenged on all sorts of things. Pop culture, fashion, world events, conspiracies. I want to find somebody that the conversation pops off but we like looking at each other too. Me: The gym is a sanctuary for me, I am there most day and it shows. I was a trainer for years, I like it there. I like television more than movies, dragonflies amaze me and I let other drivers merge on the highway. It really helps the flow of traffic. I like solving problems rather than complaining. I am a firm believer that if it is not your week, it could still be your weekend. I take care of myself but mainly to keep my mind right and keep my energy balanced. I like coffee dates, dates in general. I smoke weed and music is hugely important. I have a wide range of musical tastes including RKS, Fall Out Boy, Fleetwood Mac and many others. I also have a college degree but I don’t use it anymore. You: in your 30s or 40s and married with kids. Self care is important to you but it does not exclusively mean the gym. Maybe you like to walk around the park, go biking, read. Being sound of body and mind and all that. Do you like attention? I have a lot of that to give. Somebody who likes going out but the quieter side of things. Be passionate, care about stuff. A favorite show you are obsessed with, an obscure hobby, animals and so on. Maybe a book series you can’t put down. A sense of humor, please. Crass humor, a thousand times yes. Have a great weekend!