To start I'll say that the timezone isn't a big issue for me, I'm a younger man (28) looking for someone to connect with, I've been happily engaged for 2 years and don't plan on changing that, nor do I want to change your situation but I'm finding myself feeling like I'm unwanted or almost unneeded, so I'm hoping to find someone that's willing to fill that role and of course, this is a two way street, I'll do the same for you. I'm very discreet and know how to keep things secret, it ain't my first rodeo. However I've never had anyone that I've met in person and if all goes well, I'd be happy to meet. I also like to send pics early, don't expect one in return but I like to let you know what your getting.

About me, I'm looking for someone to message and talk to all day long but also is ok without getting immediate replies as I work full-time, so I can message during the day but after work it becomes much harder. I'm looking for someone that can challenge me intellectually and if it comes to it, physically in the bedroom as I have a high sex drive that's almost never satiated. But don't let this frighten you, I'm very easy to talk to and I'm happy to talk to anyone. I've been told I'm rather attractive, I'm fit with muscular arms and legs but have a slight belly, I stand roughly 5 10, have a beard, bright blue eyes, long brown curly hair and a great smile. I'm not necessarily looking for someone with the "perfect body", I'm more about personality and connection as I've learnt physical attraction isn't everything, however i do like curves, don't mind if your a larger woman, just be honest with me up front as I've had some bad experiences. I have a serious exterior but once you get through it I can be silly and playful, I'm also not too bothered by age, if there is attraction then let's see where it goes. I enjoy reading about physics, astronomy, psychology, philosophy and most nerdy or geeky things, I like to play billiards/snooker, enjoy having a whiskey after a hard day, playing video games to destress, take care of my many fish, some in a pond and some in a tank and learn new things. I'm always open to discussing what ever differences we have as I enjoy learning about other people and their views, even if I don't agree. Some of the best conversations I've ever had have been with people that completely disagreed with me.

If all goes well and we meet then I adore pampering whoever I'm with, massaging, kissing, pleasuring, whatever to drive them wild, I do have some kinks but we can cross that bridge when we get there, but at the same time I like to think of myself as a gentleman, I like to open doors, pull seats out, help across puddles. True chivalry.

Overall I am hoping to find someone that I can connect with, someone I can help make them feel special and they do the same for me. Someone to elevate both our lives to a higher and more meaningful place.

If you've made it this far then your probably interested, so send me a message, I look forward to talking ☺️