I'm a late 40s Married Male looking for a longer term discreet friendship with someone in Sydney or Melbourne. I would like someone longterm I can chat to regularly, connect at a deeper level, joke with (hit me with your best memes), flirt with, and hopefully, eventually, find ways to meet.

What I am looking for: I am looking for someone wanting to build an emotional connection/friendship first and then see where it goes. I am based in Sydney, however I am also down in Melbourne a lot for work so someone based there that is keen to meet up for good wine and fine dining would also be ideal.

About me: Mostly happily married and that isn't changing. I'm well-educated, have a successful career in financial services with an interesting story. Financially independent and love travelling to exotic places around the world. Not very material this also translates to people’s looks if someone is going to win me over it will likely be with their mind and personality not their physical attributes!

I am 5ft 8 have brown hair and hazel eyes, hilarious, kind hearted and driven. I have a curious personality and love connecting with and learning about people from all walks of life. I have a keen interest in the world and figuring out how shit works. I'm capable of stringing together sentences with actual words, using your and you're correctly. I can also promise that messages from me are guaranteed to be witty, flirty and have depth. I will treat people with respect and I consider myself emotionally mature.

About you: Ideally I am looking for someone married or in a LTR (I'm going to be pretty skeptical about singles but i can be convinced with the right person i'm sure) in Sydney or Melbourne. Someone that is mature, available, stable, discrete, emotionally intelligent and most importantly knows what they want. Ideally someone that is looking for a long term investment without any dramas. Hopefully you are also witty, kind and intelligent as they are big turn ons for me.