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Iāve been searching for a real connection for a while now. I had an affair that lasted two wonderful years, and it brought so much to my lifeāthere was a genuine connection, and we managed to see each other a few times each month. But like all good things, it eventually came to an end, and we've gone our separate ways.
Since then, Iāve been looking for that kind of connection again. I think I need to find someone who shares common ground with me, but I realize I might be an uncommon person. Music is a huge part of my lifeāseeing live shows is something I love, and my tastes lean toward goth, punk, new wave, and industrial. If youāre into the same scene, youāll know itās a unique vibe thatās hard to replace.
Aside from music, I love to cook and have a taste for certain shows likeĀ What We Do in the Shadows,Ā Silo,Ā Law and Order, and pretty much anything with Gordon Ramsay.
In an affair partner, Iām hoping to find someone around my age (40 ), yes really 40 , intelligent, well-read, and engaged with the world. Someone who appreciates the same music scene, maybe has a few tattoos or piercings, and knows how to have deep conversations without taking things too seriously in the bedroom. Iām not looking for a ādomā dynamicājust a genuine, passionate connection.
If any of this resonates, please send me a chat here. Include a decent introduction with your age, location, and a bit about why my post spoke to you and why you think weād be a good match. Low effort intros are just going to be ignored, put some effort into letting me know you read this.
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