Hey. I'm gonna be honest and say that this isn't my first time here looking, but through different sets of circumstances each time, it leads me back here looking for that somebody. I think more than anything I'm looking for that person to be my person. The ones we want to talk to when we're bored, at the end of a the day, first thing in the morning. I'm from Minnesota, but work brings me all over the west especially California...but also some other mountain and coastal states.

I want to know there is a strong possibility to meet. I don't take meeting lightly and I don't want you to either. It has to be the right situation and an equal sense of discretion, but I'm not interested in going on and on without somewhat of a plan or intention down the road.

I've been married 20 years and honestly at this point I really don't feel the need to complain about it. It's been a major struggle for years and we stay together. We co parent our teenagers well, we can get along when we need to, but we just aren't connected. It is hard for me to see us back in that place again and selfishly I want to feel that with someone. I'm 5'11" and have an average body. I have recently been on a pretty major weight loss journey and still continue on that path. I have a full head of hair, it's brown, my eyes are pretty brown too and I have a beard. I have a ton of interests and I bet I share some of yours. You have to be left politically. I'm drawing that as my one line.