Hi!

I've posted before and chatted a bit, but things never went anywhere as the connection didn't seem to be there. So back again to give it another shot.

Life's too short to be bored. I'm tired of missing out on things that look fun just because my wife isn't interested in any of them. So in short, I just want to find someone to share fun moments and great experiences with. If you're single, separated, divorced, stepping out, whatever...I want to have fun and share our interests, hobbies, have great conversations, and yes, have amazing sex together.

Vitals: in the SGV area, 43, white, 6', 178lbs, brown hair, blue eyes, usually have a beard (though it's fairly short now, but long enough to not be scratchy), musician with a regular 9-5 hybrid job. Like to run, workout, cycling, calisthenics, go to small music venues, explore the city, try new restaurants, go to New Bev Cinema, Laemmle, The Vista, wide open music tastes, love to learn about other cultures, wish I was a polyglot, and always up for a deep discussion and exploration of donuts.

Been in a dead bedroom for too long. Wife and I are more like roommates at this point and we have less and less in common. The short version is, I'm tired of being married and living a solitary life. I want a partner where we have shared interests, witty banter, engaging conversations. I miss the butterflies in the stomach, excited to chat the day away, then meet up for dinner or a show. Totally open to going on runs, hikes, or bike rides together, deep and engaging conversations, having a similar sense of humor, and showing appreciation for one another with our actions, and of course, being sexually compatible.

Yes, I have one kid and that's why we're still together. No, this wouldn't be my first affair. Yes, I have great OPSEC with a separate bank account, flexible hybrid schedule, burner phone app, and good alibi's.

I'm not too into pop-culture stuff like Love Is Blind or Taylor Swift. I know Blake Lively is a person, but that's about it. Definitely not into superficiality with regards to conspicuous consumption or the typical LA plastic surgery augmentations. I'm much more attracted to "normal" people that are smart, funny, creative, active, and fun to be around. And yeah, ideally looking for something long-term.

Like I said, I'm looking for something meaningful and to be completely transparent, I'm specifically looking for a partner that's Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, or Thai. Sorry. It's not some mouth breather, submissive, fantasy. Just a preference. Also, prefer someone that's in the SGV. I'd really like a running or cycling partner and anything outside of this area isn't what I'm hoping to find.

If any of this resonates with you, reach out. Happy to share pictures once some trust and comfort has been established, meet someplace in public for coffee, happy hour, whatever, then take it from there.