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You’ve coped and bargained and rationalized the place you’re in, maybe for years. Told yourself to be strong. For him, for the kids, for the sale of appearances.
And yet you’re here. And yet there is something missing you can’t deny yourself. Something which feels so wrong but won’t go away no matter how you wish it would.
Maybe you need the attention only a man can give you. Maybe those needs are darker, more passionate, more intense, than most would understand. I understand. I’m ready to see you. To see the parts of you you’re afraid to show anyone else.
In case you doubt me, I’ve spent the last 3 years re-evaluating my masculinity and needs from the ground up. I’ve done things the person I was 3 years ago couldn’t imagine.
About me: Established white collar professional, Cuban/white, built like a bear, masculine and hairy, trimmed salt and pepper beard, conservative outward appearance. Intellectual, geeky, ethically non-monogamous. Tested clean with a proven vasectomy. Consent and safety-oriented. Prefer those who are HWP, but those with extra minutes in their hourglass are more than welcome.
I’m married but separating. But I’m not going to let that stop me from living my 40s the way I should’ve lived my 20s and 30s.
If you’re ready, join me.
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