I'm a mother of a handful of kids going about the days and needing more. It has been over a month since my husband touched me, but this isn't just about that. He doesn't ask about my day or care how I'm doing. He also doesn't like to share what's going on in his mind or heart. I really love that open connection two people can share when both are willing.

I've done this before and learned a lot. It's funny, because I realize I missed a lot of this having committed young, but I realized that even in this world (and esp in this world) I need someone who is really into me. Not show up at my house and cut me to pieces and wear my flesh into me, but into me enough that I'm actually a priority, within reason. We have our lives and we are busy, so I don't expect 24/7 comms. But I want us both to be excited to hear from the other. It's no fun when either person is trying to keep it going and the other isn't 100% in it. I have enough rejection IRL -- if you're not into me that's fine, but I'm looking for that click when we both know we found something special.

You should be attractive (nice eyes and smile go a long way), passionate about enough things to make our conversations random and interesting, and not a sociopath (we are all a little narcissistic to be here, and I do like men who know their worth also.) You enjoy bratty/switchy energy (lots of guys just want a basic sub that's not me). You enjoy banter, wordplay, wit, and a little crazy, all wrapped up in the bow of a woman who seems relatively normal on the surface.

And you don't mind having feels one day, but you won't jump into any of that too fast. But you aren't scared of it.

Tell me one place you've traveled that was amazing and one place that was overrated. Any fun travel stories welcome to let me know you read my whole ad.