I guess it's required to say at the beginning that I'm attached, not looking to change anyone's situation, looking to a spark, etc. I'm not expecting much from this. Saint Louis seems like a terrible place for meeting people and even worse if you're already attached. But you miss all the shots you don't take.

I'll try to keep what I'm looking for short enough that people will read and long enough that people will get the idea. I'm looking for a woman in the area who actually has time for this. If you can only send a couple messages a day, I'm out. I need that conversation through out the day. Let's use each other to pass the time. Tell me about your day, what pissed you off at work, what are you listening to, what are you eating, all that stuff. Not every conversation has to be super deep and philosophical. I'm a great listener and want to hear it all. I want somebody who is open to meeting at some point. I'm not talking right away. Let's get to know each other first, it makes it better to have some sort of deeper connection when you do meet someone. I would like to exchange pictures fairly early on. If there is no attraction no use in wasting each others time. Forming feelings are great and I'm open to that but I want some lustfulness and flirtiness. I want to make you feel wanted. I want you to want me. I don't see anything wrong with that and the fact you are reading this means you probably don't either. I'm missing most all of that in my current relationship.

As for me, I'm white, 39, tall, professional, no kids. I have all my teeth and hair. I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. Trying to get back into working out again (aren't we all). I'm the kind of guy you could take home to mom if this weren't the kind of relationship that no one will ever know about lol. I like tv and movies, music, cooking, animals, and DIY type stuff. I have a lot of time available for this.

As for you, basically what I wrote above. I'm good with any body type, any race, preferably close to my age but younger is fine as long as personalities match up. If any of this sounds like you or something you would be interested in send me a message. I'd love to hear from you.