Are you a married mom? Do you live in the suburbs and love to thrift and do creative stuff between Target runs? 

Are you looking for a mom-friend bestie to chat with on the phone and over coffee/drinks about the day’s highs and lows?

A bestie to share your day with… 

…and then share a roll between the sheets with?

A mom bestie to play with inside and outside the bedroom…

…to shop at Bed, Bath, and Beyond with, decorate the bedroom with, and then play together in it?

If you answered yes to any or all of these, then I’m looking for you!

I’m a young soul in a soft and curvy mom body, strong and flexible in all the right ways; with the bonus of wisdom that comes from experience.  I know my heart, I’m comfortable with myself, and I have a lot of time to dedicate to having fun, hopefully with you! 

About me: I’m white, 5’7, long dark blonde hair, blue eyes, 38DD, glasses. I have always leaned into the cute side of pretty, with an air of innocent and sweet. Don’t let appearances fool you, I’ve got a wicked sense of humor, a fondness for profanity, and am KINKY. I have a bubbly, optimistic personality. My vanilla interests include reading (especially erotica), crafting, thrifting, and pretty much anything creative other than gardening. For some bewildering reason I seem to kill every plant I touch. I am a wonderful cultivator of twigs and sticks. 

I’ve been married for 20 years, with a dead bedroom (most of the time), not by my choice (most of the time). In the last year or so I have decided to make positive changes in my life. I have my health in hand, I get regular exercise, my job is fulfilling, and now is the time - in my life and marriage - to explore and fulfill my needs and wants with another woman. My spouse knows I have these desires, but not that I’m acting on them - this is a secret steamy situationship just between us.

Full disclosure - I’m bi-curious and have never been with a woman. Please be willing to be patient with my inexperience. I promise I will make up for that with my enthusiasm!!!

In exploring this, including kink is very important to me and a required element. I am submissive and have an interest in kink and BDSM. I’m looking for a bestie/FWB that is also submissive and into kink/BDSM. While I am not looking for a Domme or to Domme you, I do understand that my submissive nature may call to your Domme side, and that’s ok. Ideally, I’d like us both to find a male Dom together and explore that world together in the future. 

I work part time but I have a very flexible schedule. Looking to meet for spicy time during the weekdays, but also looking for vanilla time for phone calls, shopping, and SFW activities nights and weekends. 

Of course the standard “not looking to change your situation or mine…” (Side note, why hasn’t Reddit made a handy acronym for that yet?)

What I’m looking for and want from you: Married suburban mom, 30 , stable life, bi/bi-curious, submissive and willing to explore kink (including a male Dom), non-smoker, drug & disease free. In public, you are a mom friend to go shopping with, chat, and text and share our day to day lives. In private, you are someone I can explore my bisexual and kinky sides with. 

To quote an ad I saw recently, “Let’s be Besties that touch each other.” Can’t wait to hear from you!

Please, NO MEN and no single people.