I’ve posted on here a few times and with good luck and fun times, I am looking forward to meeting more new people.

I’m 41, 5’4”, BBW, redhead, living in San Francisco. I’m married and nothing is changing there.

I would like something casual, like a fwb, with a little emphasis on friend first. Let’s get drinks and see where it takes us. Maybe some days we want an activity partner to check out a new restaurant, on another day I might just call and see if I can come over for…you know…YOU know…like watching the Lord of the Rings trilogy extended edition. Kidding, maybe lol.

I’m a bit of a rough around the edges blue collar gal and I can be quite shy in person even though I know what I post on Reddit doesn’t make me seem so. I like a good sick sense of humor and some banter. Let’s talk some shiiiiiit. I prefer dives and pubs but do enjoy some cocktail lounges with drink ingredients that I can’t pronounce.

I like the nice sweet respectful men. Someone who likes to give and receive affection. Someone mature, clean and hygienic. I crave a genuine gentleman that is ok taking his time. I’m a sucker for facial hair and the blue collar guys but open to broaden my attraction. I prefer men around my age or older.

You are in my situation, single, married, whatever but I want someone who is willing to have fun with this, more so than just in the bedroom. Meet a couple times a month. Or if you travel here every once in a while that’s amazing also. I like messaging and keeping in touch inbetween the dates and talking about the mundane day to day to flirty cheeky videos to let us know we can’t wait to see each other again.

I am not really looking to travel outside of the city but might be open to it after we get to know one another. I also will not host.

I am not interested in bdsm, sub, dom, femdom, mommy, daddy stuff. I’m not into the lifestyle events, parties, clubs, and so on. I wouldn’t say I’m vanilla, but I’m pretty “normal” in what I like and want. When someone tells me they’re a dom switch power polyam kitchen table enm locally sourced sub rainbow baby relationship anarchist then I just can’t, the labels are not for me.

If you’ve made it this far and are still with me here (damn look at you) and are still interested then send me a SFW pic of yourself. Chemistry is important but we both know physical attraction brings us together. There’s plenty of me in my profile. Tell me your favorite bars in the city, last song you listened to and what you are looking for.

I put effort in this post, I would like effort in your response. Send a pic, what you are looking for and the answer to the random questions above.

I get tested regularly and expect a recent negative test before anything progresses. I’m vaxxed 4x. Very much lean left but I don’t want to talk politics at all.

Have fun and I hope you all find what you are looking for out there.