Too many connections these days feel like two ships passing at night—brief interactions and then gone before you know it to continue on the ocean of life

I’m hoping to find something different, something that lasts. Even amid life’s chaos, two lost souls can genuinely find each other to fill what’s missing in our lives, emotionally and physically. I’m not looking to change your situation—mine is equally complicated.

You: Married or attached, in your 30s or 40s, someone who takes care of herself, keeps an open mind and can converse about everything and is non-judgemental. Ideally, you’re in the SF Bay Area. You understand that discretion and opsec are key.

Me: I’m 45 years old, married, and an empty nester living as a roommate. I work in Tech in the SF Bay Area. My interests range from cooking (yes!), classic movies, and sci-fi to travel (I’ve traveled a lot), silly memes/jokes/banter, and learning new languages (currently learning Spanish)

I’m working on getting fitter and am happy to exchange pics (on a different platform) early.

Let’s not just be passing ships and make a genuine connection. I want us to have a reason to look at the phone, hoping for a message, and smile after reading it.

Ships that pass in the night, and speak each other in passing,

Only a signal shown and a distant voice in the darkness;

So on the ocean of life, we pass and speak one another,

Only a look and a voice, then darkness again and a silence