These things are so hard to write. I feel like I'm stumbling in the dark trying to come up with just the right words and I just don’t feel like I'm getting across who I am. I've already revised and rewritten this like, a million times. Over-think much? Lol

Ok with that out of the way, here we go….

I've been with my wife for a long time but our connection is gone. Our relationship has no intimacy and sex is passionless and monotonous. I’ve been trying to revive our relationship but she is apparently ok with where things are so here I am again.

About me: This isn’t my first rodeo. Discretion is of the utmost importance and I take OPSEC seriously as I’m not looking to blow up your relationship or mine. I’m 47 (and  have been told I don’t look my age), am kind, caring, compassionate, playful and super affectionate… holding your hand, caressing you back, kissing you often, cuddling in bed and my love language is touch. I’m open-minded in all aspects of life and non judgmental,  fond of endearing nicknames/pet-names, like messaging throughout the day, love love love animals and am a total Sci-Fi geek. I go to the gym regularly, look after my health, have 2 older kids and love them dearly, have been an IT professional for many years and my favorite type of music is techno/electronica/EDM (whatever you want to call it).

In bed I tend to take charge but am very much a giver; your pleasure is important. I’m always passionate, sometimes tender, sometimes rougher (adjusting to the person I’m with) but your wants and needs matter to me. I love kissing, lots of foreplay, have stamina (although quickies can be fun) and am open to kink and fetish. Physically, I don't have a type. I’m attracted to women of all ages, colors, shapes and sizes and I mean that. I'm 6ft tall, 190lbs, in shape, bi-racial (black and white) with short, soft, curly brown hair, brown eyes, a goatee. 

I’m mostly available daytime/early evening on the weekends but can take time off in the work week, during the day, with some planning. 

Wow, you made it to the end of my novel, lol, so why not reach out and say hi. Intimacy and passion might just be a chat or message away.