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I’m 40, married, currently living in Chapel Hill but will be moving to Charlotte soon. I am not looking to change my marital status, but am looking to fill gaps. Part of this is physical intimacy, as our physical relationship has largely always been lacking. I want to find someone who is willing to share that physical joy and excitement that I’m missing. Part of it is also emotional. I want to be able to chat about anything and everything, including the dark (and sometimes steamy) parts that we may not be willing to tell others. About me and what I’m looking for:
- I’m tall (6’2), and a bit heavier than I’d like to be. But I’m looking for the motivation to change that.
- I’ve recently graduated from going back to school for a major career change. My upcoming move to Charlotte is for a job in my new career.
- I can be somewhat shy and awkward until I get comfortable with someone
- I used to be a gamer, but haven’t really had the opportunity over the past few years. I do like movies and TV, and I try to read a little bit for pleasure each day (though I don’t get through books terribly quickly right now)
- I like creative endeavors, and I’m happy to discuss ones I’ve pursued in the past
- Again, I’m not looking to change my marital status, and I won’t take unnecessary risks. Discretion is important. But that doesn’t mean that I don’t want a connection with someone.
- My wife periodically travels. When she is gone, I can host, though you must be ok with dogs. If you can host other times, that is a plus.
I hope that I can find someone who is interested. If you want to know anything more about me, I’m largely an open book.
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