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Hello, back to reddit after 5 years. Couldn’t remember my old username, and also created this account to be a bit anonymous.
I’ve been married 23 years this year and life is not where I wanted it to be. Not really sure what I want outside of chatting with a like minded female or single woman. I know she has stepped out before but she doesn’t know that I know.
We live like friends in the same house. Marriage is stale and I’ve given up on trying to fix it. The effort was always on my end and I’m exhausted. We haven’t been intimate in 3 years but I’ve maintained being there and trying but lately something has snapped.
Maybe I just want something on the side to ease the pain. Maybe I want something physical to fill that need so I can focus on other good aspects of our relationship. Maybe I just need that friend to help me get over the hump.
I’m:
Recently turned 43 Work in a high profile job just outside of downtown Indy Starting to go a little gray Father of 2 5-10 Dad Bod
Loves:
Punk, Indie, Metal, and Alternative music Tattoos and piercings but doesn’t have any Traveling Art Trying new foods
I do realize that finding a like minded female will be difficult. To ease your hesitation I’m not looking to jump into bed with you after 5-10 messages. I want a friend, someone who I can chat with, maybe have a coffee or lunch, possibly even attend a show with.
Send me a message and let’s go from there.
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