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My wife and I just feel like roommates and I’ve started to lose interest in being intimate. I tend do all the cooking, cleaning, handling of bills, and I’m the only one who ever initiates any affection or attempts at intimacy. The few times we are intimate, it feels like it’s one sided as I’m very focused on her pleasure. For example, she enjoys my going down on her but doesn’t like to give oral herself. Which I understand as everyone has their own kinks and interests in bed, I just wish she gave me the same amount of attention I give to pleasing her so I don’t have to fake an orgasm because I am no longer into it. I’m not even bothered by the fact that I do more around the house. I just want to be with a passionate and attentive lover that wants to make me feel good as well. Counseling just made me feel like the problem because I am some sort of sexual deviant because I expressed the desire to be more adventurous in bed and want to be seduced. Maybe it’s true, i’m certainly an asshole for wondering how it’d feel to be with someone who I actually seem to have sexual chemistry with.
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