Hey there!
I'm an early 40s married man who's navigating the challenges of life with a dead bedroom.
A little about me
You can find me working from home and juggling the joys and challenges that come with it, but I always make time for meaningful connections. I'm always up to chat or text during the workday In my free time, I work on a bunch of personal project between photography and some programming tasks I do. (yes I'm the IT guy)
I understand the unique challenges and joys that come with this, as i have had an AP in the past and had a wonderful connection till she moved away, I want someone who understand the balancing act of an AP and a marriage which I believe is critical with an AP, I'm looking for a long-term connection with someone who values intimacy and emotional closeness, and who respects and supports my boundaries. While I'm not looking to change my current situation, I'm open to building a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with the right person.
Obviously sexual compatibility is critical, but so is compatibility period. If we can't hold a conversation or flirt with each other regular, then I don't see it working for either of us.
Please don't play games with me and i won’t play games with you, if you’re not interested after we talk a bit don’t just ghost me, tell me, I'm a big boy I know I’m not everyone's cup of tea, and that’s great but hey let's be adults about it.
Trying something new with this let's exchange some pics early on in the conversation, once again let's not play games.
What you all want to know,
1 Yes I have a beard, no I’m not getting rid of it
2 I have a few extra pounds around the midsection (6' 235)
3 I have Dark hair and eyes.
4 No i won’t put a photo here, but I will gladly send one or do a video call with you.
5 when it comes to sexual kinks etc., let’s keep that between us. but i do quite enjoy giving oral
6 I would like to someone within an hour or 2 of Collegeville/king of Prussia/Pottstown PA,
Thanks for reading, hope to talk soon.