Hello again fellow adulterers...

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It's been a while since my last post here, but I'm back with a renewed hope that I may find that person I've been looking for!

I've been married for over 10 years and been together even longer. In many ways I have a good relationship and am hoping to find someone who feels the same way. My biggest thing is that I have a lot more attention and affection to give than my wife is interested in receiving. There is also the aspect that we just don't have as much in common as we may have before. If you are feeling like your husband just doesn't have the time or interest for you then maybe you should send me a message!

I am a very laid back individual and I love to joke and laugh. I can be sarcastic and sometimes my jokes might get cheesy but I'll do my best to make you laugh. I'm a bit of a nerd and it would be a plus if you were too. Having some similar ground to get to know each other would be nice! Ideally we will get to know each other online for a while before we plan to meet. I'm not looking to rush into anything and want to make sure that we're compatible so if all you're looking for is something quick and easy I might not be best for you.

On that note, physical attraction is something that we should talk about. I'm 5'8", Brown hair, Blue eyes, Beard, with a dad bod. Over that last few years getting helathy has been a priority for me and I have lost close to 100 pounds from eating healthier and being more active. I still have a few punds to go before I hit my goal but if you're looking for chiseled abs, again, I might not be best for you.

I do have kids and I think that I am fine talking with people with or without kids but please know that my boys are very important to me and I would absolutely respect anyone who needs to put their kids as the top priority!

I hate writing these sometimes because it can just feel so stale! Some of my interests are cooking, hockey, reading, writing, learning new things, music of all types (I am definitely polyjamourous) so I would be surprised if we didnt have a few faves in common. I live on the Southside and am really hoping to meet someone fun and flirty to have a luagh with and see where things go. I'm not super concerned about meeting someone who is a particular "type" looks wise so please reach out if anything I've written strikes something for you.

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Send me a chat and lets get off of Reddit and into each others lives!