It's hard trying to stand out. Trying to find something that every man on reddit seems to be searching for. I want to claim to be different or special. But am I really? Probably not.

I am married, with 2 kids. 6ft tall, about 265lbs. Brown hair, hazel eyes, full beard. I'm looking for an AP. Things are exhausting and overwhelming at home. It's not her fault that things have gotten this way (medical issues and surgeries). But I love her too much to leave, because it's not her fault. Stuck between a rock and a hard place. Having itches that can't get scratched. Desires that I don't want to her to feel obligated to painfully satisfy, or guilty for not being able to.

I would prefer someone of a similar situation. Maybe you're too stuck to move. Maybe you're overwhelmed and need a distraction like me. I would entertain the idea of a single/divorced person. I just will want you to understand the entire situation, and not be trying to change my situation.

I don't want to rush into things. I'd like to chat for a while, make sure it's the right fit. See where it goes. This needs to be an emotional and physical connection for me, and should be for you too.

Let's chat and see where it goes. - Please be actually willing and able to meet eventually, and not over an hour away.