I am 35, married with children. I am 5'7" with brown hair, blue eyes, and a typical dad bod. I stay very active but the drinking has helped add some weight. I am looking for a best friend, someone who wants to got on little local adventures with me, as well as explore our sexuality together. I have unfortunately married a partner that, although I love deeply, is rather vanilla. I am looking to not only experience more in my sex life, but also to find someone who would want to go on fun dates and explore Southern California with me... discreetly of course.

My ideal AP: I am a man that is open to anything, especially if our personalities match. That being said, an older woman or MILFs are a huge turn on to me. I would prefer a woman who is willing to go on little day dates with me. My schedule is generally flexible but days are best. I have no preference as to whether or not you are married/attached/single, as long as you are well aware that I am married. DDF is a must. I love a woman who can carry on a conversation and seeks after me as much as I do them. Sexually, I prefer a woman who loves to explore new kinks with their AP. I prefer older women, MILFs, squirting, lingerie, anal, toys, and light BDSM.

As for me, I love to go hiking all over Southern California and I spend a lot of time outdoors. Exploring new restaurants, bars, breweries, and shopping are all a great way to spend the day. I love watching movies, listening to music, going for long drives, and sometimes I love just staying at home and enjoying the day in. I am a pretty easy-going and flexible partner and I am open to new experiences and trying things I am unfamiliar with. If any of this sounds remotely interesting to you, please send me a message and lets talk. I am tired of the rut I am in and I would love to explore the local world with a new best friend.