I crave the newness, flirting, lust, and excitement. I want to build a long term connection. I’m not in a rush and want to develop a mental connection. I want to be excited when I see a message with your name.

I'm married, in a mostly amazing marriage, but in a dead bedroom (medical reasons). I have a such good, happy life, but some days I miss passion and sex so much I want to cry. I don’t want to live without passion and intimacy anymore.

I want a lover. An ongoing part-time boyfriend :)
I want someone who is married/attached, but like me is missing passion and excitement, and wants a girlfriend. I want sparks and chemistry. Smiling as we type because we just get each others humor. I want fun easy chat and an easy, respectful organic flow to sexier chat.

I am Kind. Sweet.
Witty. Good-natured sarcastic humor. But, I tend to match energy. I’m passionate and intense, but also don’t take myself too seriously. I laugh easily and often.I’m very sexual, intense, adventurous, expressive and communicative.
Insatiable.
I am kinky and adventurous.

Looking for someone to explore my needs and desires. Something where we are connected intensely, intellectually, mentally and physically. Someone who is motivated to truly learn the depths my kinks and my immense capacity for pleasure.

You:Preferably aged 40-60. I am open to some variation.
My ideal match is in his mid 40’s - mid 50’s, good shape, fit, intellectual, professional, successful.
Be within an hour from East Bay Area. I eventually want to meet irl.
Be HWP. Fit.Educated. Well groomed. Straight clean teeth.
Have the time and means to do this, as I do. Affairs cost time and money.
Willing to put in the effort to create amazing experiences together.

Me:Aged 49East Bay Area California.HWP. 5’7, 160. Thick. Fit. Athletic.Attractive. stylish. Educated. Well groomed. Well travelled.

I’m not in a rush and want to develop a connection. I want to spend a decent amount of time chatting first before meeting irl.

If anyone out there exists who can hold a good conversation, wants to help me explore my kinkier side, and doesn't live over 100 miles away please get in touch!

I would like to chat on reddit briefly to see if we vibe, and then move to Telegram.
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