Here is my motive for doing this. I want to develop feelings for a woman I find attractive, funny, confident, and interesting to talk to. Then I want to have our connection develop and evolve into something strong, genuine and romantic.

So to do this I need women in North America to read this post and develop enough attraction and curiosity to message me. That is my goal; to attract as many eligible women to this post as possible and have many respond so I can match with one of them.

How am I going to do that? By telling you as much about myself as I can so that many women see traits they like and message me. I should just list the good things but I don’t want to surprise anyone with anything later on. That isn’t fair.

Now all that remains is to tell you about myself. As the title says I am 55 year old man who has been married to the same woman for 33 years. I have two children in their 20s. My job is extremely rewarding and I work in service to others. It is a white collar job. My highest level of education is a master’s degree which I recently earned. I was born and raised in Saskatchewan if that is a plus.

Generally speaking I am an introvert who does not like conflict and wants everyone to be content and happy. I also know that is not always possible so I will attempt to resolve conflict that I have with someone or that two other people have constructively and effectively. So I want to run from it but have learned to deal with it.

I feed off of interacting one-on-one with someone I feel attracted to. To become attracted to you I need to feel I can trust you. (Okay a bit ironic considering I am looking for an AF) But I won’t share my inner self with you unless I know you won’t harm me and that you will also share your inner self with me. I thrive off that connection and live for it. I want that connection again. I don’t fix or help. I listen compassionately so that you feel cared for and understood.

I like to think about existential items like why we are here and what is our purpose. I want to know your past because it will inform me why you do what you do and think what you think.

My favourite thing to do is laugh and honestly I have really laughed in a long time. I like to smile and share and feel.

Some things you should be aware of. I have ADD, was bullied in school, struggled in school but kept trying, spent much of my childhood alone, suffer from depression which is in remission (I don’t think I will ever be cured but I can control and limit its impact) and struggled for many years to find the perfect career for me.

Hobbies include reading, sipping a scotch in the local pub, sports, thrifting, going to garage sales, driving on the mountains, music, collecting sports cards, and watching TV.

I am 5’8, 290 Ibs which in losing as we speak, brown eyes, brown hair with a touch of grey and no beard, but I can grow one. I have a nice smile and told I am cute and my mom never lies. Just kidding about the mom part. She actually said I was fugging uckly. Just kidding again.

So the part of me I can’t show you is my impact on people. It might sound like bragging but people like me. They like being around me and I tend to be everyone’s friend. I make people feel comfortable, important and loved. Why? Because I like people and see the best in them and try to draw that out. We may not become lovers if we chat but more than likely we will be friends if you are looking for that.

Oh yes one more thing. I have a cancer that is not life threatening and very treatable. I anticipate treatment will occur in the spring so something to consider.

That’s about it. That is me in a nutshell shell. There is more to me so come and ask me questions. I would love to speak with you!