Hi. I know from experience that just because this is an "F4M" I will get an over abundance of responses. Which gratifies my ego - but makes things pretty overwhelming

Please do not reply unless you are available to meet in Manhattan and are between 38 and 52.

Please do not send me a dick pic. Please do not brag about how big your dick is.

I reserve the right to publicly shame those who do not adhere to these reasonable requests.

When I started this account I was a timid wife, stifled and lonely in my marriage. Now that's a bit of a misnomer. I am still not getting laid at home very much, but I've managed to get my needs satisfied extracurricularly. It's not a perfect solution. It's probably immoral. But it keeps my marriage and my sanity intact.

I am not young. I am not skinny. I have been pregnant, delivered vaginally, delivered via c-section and nursed babies.

I am not old. I am not fat. I am not ugly. I cover the grey in my hair. I eat well. I get on the exercise bike almost every day. I do my kegels

I am not prudish. I am not uptight. I like inventive, experimental and exploratory. I am open to most things. Life is short.

I am in NYC three nights per month, almost always Tues, Weds and Thurs. I am not free during the day or on weekends. I am not worried about being seen in public with you, but I need to be discreet for personal and professional reasons. This will probably go on for about the next six more months and then I won't be back anymore.

I would like to get laid on a regular basis when I am in town. I probably have a slight preference for a married guy - but have had fun with single ones too. I am totally open to a lady friend and occasionally frequent lesbian bars in the city.

I have had some success using Reddit and am hopeful that this could work for me again.

I'll make a reasonable attempt to respond to all who approach me with respect