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Let me start by saying this is an unusual step for me. I’ve previously contemplated and even met/chatted with a couple of men with the view to see if a connection that I want builds. But that’s a tall order :)
But this time feels different because I know now with clarity what I want. It’s a friendship and trust that endures for a very long time. The slow build up of connection, attraction, banter thar is both innocent fun and serious conversation, with mischief and passion thrown in when we get there.
Not looking to sext , or be the momentary excitement so many seek here. If that’s you, good for you. But we will not be a match.
Things that build rapport with me : intelligence, self awareness, understanding, kindness, honesty, simplicity, warmth, appreciation and gratitude for the little things in life. That’s the basis of rapport and connection for me. To me, understanding the value of that connection implies a lot of things about one’s qualities and values. I have a lot to lose and anything less than this is not worth risking it all for.
The necessary details : attractive, happy, a little in need of a companion I vibe well with but enjoy my solitude as well. Intelligent if I do say so myself, kind, warm, honest to a fault.
Won’t get along with : liars, people who lack dignity, cake eaters, etc.
Tell me your favorite books. And why they are your favorites.
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