Hello, thanks for reading what will most likely be a very long post. Im an attached lady looking to establish something long term and fun with a man aged 35-55 in a similar situation. I have done this before and I’m looking for someone who also has some experience with affairs. Ideally you will be someone who lives close by to me and has a flexible schedule. I’m looking for someone who is also willing to hang out outside of the bedroom. Even though I don’t want to date you, I don’t want to feel like a prostitute. I’m serious about the friendship aspect of this relationship and to me being friends means actually getting to know you outside of sexual encounters. I’m an extremely curious person and I’m very interested in people and getting to know them.

About me: I’m 5’3” and 140lb, curvy is the best way to describe me though I’m not overweight in any shape or form. I have boobs and an ass which is probably where all the fat in my body congregates. I take care of myself. That includes exercising daily. I run, I walk, I strength train. I’ve been described as “sexy”, “hot” and “cute”. I have dark hair and dark eyes. I’m also very educated and intelligent, well travelled and well read. The best thing about me though is that I’m caring and friendly. I will be a good friend to you as long as you’re not a shitty friend in return. I am kink friendly as long as your kinks doesn’t involve feces and blood.

What I’m into: I’m into intelligent guys who have an edge to them. I like a good sense humor and I like a guy who is a little dirty. Physically I’m into tall guys who are also fit. Tall being 6 feet and over. No beer bellies please. I’m also not into tall skinny guys. I like to see muscle definition however in no shape or form do I expect a 6 pack and I’m not into body builders either. The flexing and oily skin feels cringe to me. Communication is paramount to me. If you can’t carry a conversation and can’t express things like your boundaries and expectations then you’re not the right person for me.

Hard no’s: 1- I will not accept an online only affair. 2- I will not talk to anyone who hasn’t had an actual affair. That includes those who have only had online affair or just a blow job. If you haven’t had a full blown physical affair before please don’t DM me. 3- please do not send me a message if you are single. Single men who go after married women give me the ick. 4- if your wife is pregnant please don’t dm me. 5- if you work from home and your spouse also works from home or in general has the expectation that you will never leave the house without her please don’t bother sending me a message. 6- if you are being tracked and can’t get around the tracking software then don’t bother either. 7- those who have compromised opsec aka your spouse discovered a previous affair of yours.

Disclaimer: I do have hsv1. That is oral herpes if you don’t know what that means. I’ve never had an outbreak or symptoms. If you dm me I will assume that you either have it or know enough about it to know that it is common and that you are willing to risk it.

If you think you fit the description, send me a message to introduce yourself. Pictures are definitely encouraged and will help me respond to you. It can be a body picture if opsec is a concern for you.