I tend to be organized, goal oriented and authentic. I feel my strengths are being able to listen, understand and be very empathetic to those I am around. I have experiences to draw from and am always willing to share them. My description of myself is that of a teacher, mentor or guide by individuals and get great satisfaction out of being in that role. My style I would say is that of Daddy Dominant, Sensual Dominant or Owner of my submissive. I believe I have ebbed and flowed in this wonderful lifestyle, learning and growing in each new experience. From play partners to long term D/s relationships, from internet to IRL all have placed me in a position to really know my Dominant self. Like anything there is much room to grow and I seek that constantly. Some attributes I hold firm too and are part of my core beliefs, following safe, sane and consensual best practices. To me this means getting to know the person, not just kink/fetish level, but building a bond that promotes safety. Aftercare is important to me,mental health and well being are practices I adhere to completlely. Looking for meaningful, lasting friendships, the quick hook up has been losing its attraction as I get older. A large part of who I am is also tied closely to the mental aspect of my dominance, physical is key but without a mental or emotional components physical soon disappears leaving me wanting and unsatisfied. I am intensely private person and look for others that are respectful in this area. I connect well with others who are able or wanting to communicate, looking to intensify spiritual experiences and gain self understanding. Affirmations of ‘good girl’ come as natural to me as “slut” and “whore” shaping, conditioning and owning as watching them personally grow when they clearly never felt they could, brings me pleasure for my efforts. I seek a submissive that intrinsically wants to serve, pleasure and meet my needs. She has the enthusiastic inner slut or whore mindset and is needing a Dominant to facilitate the process, formulate the procedures and benchmark her growth. I am consistent when it comes to enforcing limits, boundaries and punishment. Experience has shown that the “baby girl” and “bratty” types are very enticing to me it forces me to use my intellect to match with them completely, allowing me to utilize my strengths. Depending on how the person identifies I also like training my submissive to my likes, in dress kinks, submissive poses and of course sexually. Pushing ones self to be their best version is exciting- finding their tolerance, having non rushed attention to the submissive that has chosen to serve me forming and molding her to be my favorite fucktoy, is gratifying. I like to take very good care of the things I play with or own,- that bring me joy, perform well and I hold very high value to their servitude. Over the last many years, I have focused on impact play, mental bondage/submission and physical bondage. Orgasm denial, scene role play and challenges have topped my interests also for many years. My weakness would be in rope bondage, age play and group play. I tend to be very protective of my submissive and my time with her so having all my attention on her is important to me. I am very open to new experiences both from my submissive’s suggestions and as I learn and grow more in my dominance. Person centered approach seems to be the best way to describe myself and interactions with others, if this is attractive or intriguing please reach out, I find eminence value in friendships.