Good evening!

I'm really hoping to find someone interested in building something with. I've learned that these "connections" that tend to start out overly "hot" tend to be the ones that fizzle out the soonest. And while they're fun for awhile, they aren't the kind of experience I'm searching for. So I guess I'll just say it out-right: I want to find someone interested in something long-term for just the two of us. I don't want to have to share and neither should you! While I am looking for someone somewhat local (if you're willing to work within State, I am too!), I'm not looking to rush meeting (though I absolutely want to one day when the time is right). Let's take our time getting to know one another by talking, teasing, laughing, and flirting daily. Let's build up those butterflies and feelings until we can't take it anymore and desperately need the other. I can't speak for you, but I don't get these feelings and this attention at home. So, if you're missing this deep and passionate spark in your life... well, know that you're not alone!

You: Silly, kind, passionate, and able to hold a conversation outside of one-word replies. I'd love to find someone that has some hobby or thing they just absolutely love. Maybe you like to read or maybe you're a gamer. Maybe you crochet, run, or anything! I've found that the most interesting people are those who have something that is "theirs", so to speak. I want to learn about this, share in it with you!

Me: Goofy as hell, sarcastic, with a mouth that probably should stop talking more often than not. Once you get me on a topic about something I like, dig in, we're gonna be here awhile! I have a good career, love to explore and travel, and honestly just enjoy life. I try to be positive and optimistic in most things I do. Oh, and I'm a big nerd. Super big. But don't tell anyone. Shh.

Please know that I am NOT looking to change either of our lives or families. I don't want someone that is on the way out of their marriage either. We both accept that our lives and relationships aren't what we want so let's take this opportunity to be selfish and find it with someone we do want and that does want us back.

Also, while I understand we both are busy and have lives, I'm ideally hoping to find someone that has the time to talk. Work and families absolutely come first but I am not looking for a penpal where we catchup every day or so; I want a partner I can talk to, get to know, and all that comes with it!

Hopefully there is someone out there that wants all of this and maybe we can find it together!