Yes I said - if you are a person who makes posts how “attraction is important! Send a picture first!” - then I do not want you at all.

I am a 31 year old single but experienced and discreet side guy who misses having passion in his life with a woman who has none and needs it.

I am looking for a taken woman who has the following:

• funny, good sense of humor
• open minded, inquisitive
• someone who doesn't mind small talk but doesn't shy away from the personal and intense
• open to women who have never done this and the experienced as well - just be forthcoming with your intentions
• enjoys being with men who are gentleman, a bit of a homebody, easy going, nonjudgmental, caring, compassionate and overall wants to make YOU happy
• understands that having a side guy means you will make time for them - but at the same time be honest about how often you will be able to talk. I have been in relationships where it was once a week - however I felt they were unfulfilling and wish to find someone who has time everyday for at least a little bit. I am the type who wants to see our relationship grow, not just someone to chat with for 5 mins a day.
• open to looks: i am an average looking Latino. About 5 '8 and I am on the chubbier side and trying to actively lose it. When it comes to my package i'm only about 5” so don't expect a python lol. Personally, when it comes to my women: I prefer personality over looks. Yes i do have preferences - if you're curious about my specifics i don't mind you asking! But the overall type I am looking for is someone easy on the eyes and can be petite to bbw. Any race. Any color. Any creed. Just don't be a Trekkie! Just kidding :) I'm indifferent to ST and SW lmao.
• understand this is a two way street - i'm not just looking for sex or nudes. I want someone I can trust as well - someone I can grow with. Someone I can feel who appreciates me for me. Someone I can be vulnerable with - as she would feel comfortable, safe and secure in being vulnerable with back. I want passion, trust and more.

I would love to tell you more about me if you are slightly interested. Please dont think we will jump into passion head first. I want to talk , see if we jive. I want to see what connections we have and which ones we dont. I want to see the personality side of you, I want to see your hopes and dreams before your tits. I want to be able to actually feel your passion for growing this relationship before we have sex.

I would genuinely like this to be something long term. I am open to long distance, as I have been with women as far as eastern Canada before. Despite my experience in long distance emotional affairs, my love language is touch. So yes, I am open to something long distance, however, it is not my priority. I am seeking someone local to Los Angeles, but more on the east side and towards the San Gabriel Valley.

I purposefully did not write too much about me because I want to see how you inquire about me when you message. That's your first test ;) Don't worry it's not graded! But I will be making notes ;) Just kidding no pressure lol - message me anytime and ask whatever you want. I am the type who clicks with personality and emotion first over looks.

I am someone who is missing being able to make a woman happy. When it comes to taken women whom I date: you are my first priority. You are my reason I try to respond asap. Someone whom I will keep tabs on ranging from her: daily life, daily tasks, responsibilities, her work, her home life, just everything about her. I want to keep her on the forefront of my brain everyday as much as possible. And in return I hope she respects that and truly understands I am there for her, and to make her happy, not me. I am there to make her smile, to make her laugh, to make her forget about her day, to remind her of tasks, to encourage her throughout her day, to get her small gifts every now and then. To spoil her once in a while whether it's a simple gift card to her favorite eatery or a cute pair of lingerie. I just miss the passion. I miss the butterflies. I miss the fact i am making someone else remember that she is someone to be loved and not just used and thrown to the side after being “conquered” by someone who's supposed to be her significant other.

If you're in any shape or form curious about me don't hesitate to message me :) I purposefully wrote a lot to weed out those who are not serious and just want someone good looking. You do not know how many times the same women post the same things over and over and are always looking for someone “good looking or attractive because i am too and know what i want!” No. They don't know what they want. They can't even fathom what they want when their first basis of supposed “love” from a stranger is based on looks.