Hello, and thanks for taking some time out of your day to spend with some of my nonsense. I promise to be brief this time. I'm all about keeping things a little mysterious at first, the journey is like three quarters of the fun!

I'm looking for a special kind of lady person, someone that can just go with it, someone that doesn't take themselves too seriously, wouldn't mind trying a few things out, someone with a bit to chew on. I like to think I have what it takes for longevity and keeping things interesting and fresh, but it's gotta be a little more than a one way street.

This will take some time, I might take some time. I'm the kind of person that needs time to grow on you. There's usually a pretty decent reason for some of the ways I do things. I'm not in any kind of rush to get anywhere in particular. I see my kind of perfect starting from something a bit unexpected. I want to be words in a box for a little. I want us to fall in like with our words, ways, phrases, brains, seeing photos of things around us, working up to the teasing, throwing in a hand, a leg, keep us wondering what else we're missing out on!

It's kind of like a weird way to edge ourselves. How long can we last, I'm kinda worth the wait, I'll try to use some words to begin your mental image. I'll be working on one for myself, as we continue to talk and I continue to learn about you and your ways. Sometimes I like the longer way to do things, find ways to make things last longer. I eat some sweet treats super weird just to make them last a little longer.

My looks can change pretty easily, a different hair style, cut, face hairs, there's usually something for everyone. I'm averageish mansize, kinda broad and bulky, maybe a manly slim thicc, I could probably lose 10-20, a medium looks comically snug sometimes, avoid more carbs. I'm always down to share healthyish recipes mine get boring, only so many ways to roast or grill a vegetable! I've been keeping my hair a little longer trying to get good with the curls when I want to do it up all pretty. Sometimes it looks poofy. I keep a short stubbly beard on a pretty strong jawline with some dimples that show up on a face that just can't wait to flash a smile. However daily there's not many reasons to smile in my dumpsterfire of a job. It's usually resting unimpressed face, or resting "how is this even happening right now" face. The smiles you get are more fun to give.

The unconventional parts of me, are probably like my views, outlook, the way I do things differently but still achieve the same outcome, I do something for a job that probably only a few hundreds of people do, I like the path less traveled, pink is one of my favorite colors to wear, some people think I might be gay, I like short shorts sometimes that happens to be lady athleisurewear, and then those don't have pockets so I have to rock a fannypack. I've dressed up and won money, I've won photo contests, I'm just an all around good unique fun new time. Maybe you should just sit back and enjoy it.

I'm around Rochester, you don't neeeed to be close but it sure would add to the excitement.

Were our paths meant to cross? Come hang for a little, I'm looking to chill, chat and charm maybe get ourselves lost in some conversation, lost in a new brain!