If you know who Lloyd Dobbler is, you just might be the AP for me!

I believe in romance. I believe in passion. The kind of passion where our mutual desire makes it hard for us to keep our hands off each other when we’re together. Right now, that is missing from my marriage, and so I am seeking someone in a similar situation to see if we can rediscover our passion together in local hotels and Air BnBs. Yes, I am looking for an in-person, not online, affair. I’m not looking for first timers, though; please have some prior experience.

Me: Some might say I look like Jessica Chastain. They would be wrong. 😂 The best description of me is that good things come in small packages. I'm on the shorter side, with red hair and a classic voluptuous figure.

You: 35-55 (with some wiggle room on that). Tattoos are fine, but not a big fan of long hair/man buns or bushy beards. Leanly muscled or a former athlete starting to slide are good with me! If you’re in the gym 20 hours a week, sorry. That doesn't do it for me. But neither does being completely out of shape. Decently, but not excessively, in shape because we should still enjoy a glass of wine or a flight of craft beer, and even some dessert…😉

Intelligence and a sense of humour to the front of the line! Bonus points if you’re a reader. Someone with a solid ability to communicate and express himself clearly (and even sometimes humorously!). Someone that will be excited to hear from me at the end of a long day, will say goodnight and good morning. Someone available evenings and weekends. Someone with solid OPSEC who knows their way around Telegram! Someone who lives the kind of life they can step away from for a bit to enjoy some unadulterated adultery! 😉

Again, I am looking for in-person, not online, so please be in the Lower Mainland - or travel here often.

If you think we will click, send me a message and let’s work on building a connection that leads to something more. Please do not send low effort messages or dick pics, they will be ignored. But anyone else, I will do my best to respond as soon as I can, so hang in there!

Tell me how old you are and where you are, and a little bit about your own situation. Messages preferred but chats are also open.