I'm serious. Last time I posted five women in phase 1 replied. Don't waste my time or yours, I'm looking for someone who has done this before and is on the same page as me. Phase 6!

What are the 6 phases you ask?

Phase 1: you're in a dead bedroom. You resent your spouse for not having sex. If you could just have sex you'd be truly happy. You're just desperately looking for someone to have sex.

Phase 2: you had sex and, well, damn. It didn't make you happy at all. Turns out you need to really like the person AND you need them to really like you. You're looking for someone to tell you how amazing you are and heal your wounds of rejection.

Phase 3: The people that you're really attracted to don't think you're amazing. Physically, you've let yourself go. And emotionally? you're not much better. Sure, your spouse has some issues, but so do you. You really need to work on yourself for awhile and not wallow in self pity

Phase 4: You no longer resent your spouse for the DB. You still love and respect them, but the sexual attraction is just not there anymore. Still, you're a better spouse and a better person. You took the time to work on yourself and look and feel great. You turn heads with your confidence.

Phase 5: you had a real-life affair with someone you were very attracted to who stroked your ego and made you feel great. Only problem is, even though you both said "not looking to change your situation or mine", they now want out of their marriage and impatiently want you to come with them. But that ain't happening.

Phase 6: You don't need to have sex, nor do you need someone to worship the ground you walk on. Sex and secret meetups are the icing on the cake that is a great life - an extracurricular where feelings are ok, but guilt, selfishness, judgment and ultimatums are not ok.

I'm a tall, fit guy in phase 6 and looking for my phase 6 girl to who is just.. well, tired of doing everything for her family and, sure gets male attention, but wants a different kind of attention from a certain type of person.

Southwest Ohio so we can actually meet!