Currently in a dead bedroom situation without even much in the way of affection at all. I feel like I'm just a convenience to have around in order to gets things done at the house. I miss that feeling of being respected and appreciated while also being thrust into the romance again.

I'm not looking to change any situation and discretion is important. I will absolutely respect your boundaries. I do have kids, so being understanding of their busy activity schedules is also a plus. Having open communication about when and how we will be able to conversate is also important to me.

So, about me. I'm extremely average looking, like I could easily blend into a crowd. I'm 5'8 with a dad-bod and a beard, but I've accepted that genetics gave me the short straw (sorry, not sorry for the bad pun). I'm an introvert and would love to cuddle up for a movie or to listen to the fire crackle. I have three kids but one has left the house already.

I'm definitely a nerd, working with math and IT systems integration. But I also WFH and there are stretches of days where I'm bored out of my mind. I love the outdoors, whether that be camping, hiking, river floating or boating, I'm in my happy place around water. I'm sarcastic to a fault. I am very liberal and 420 friendly, but that doesn't mean you have to be as well. Policitics have their place, but don't need to be an instant disqualifier.

I'm also very trusting, usually overly trusting. But that has caused me a lot of pain in the past. I want to find someone real, who has a life to live but is missing something that I can possibly provide. I am not opposed to meeting some day, but I want to get to know you, your dreams and desires first. I'm more than happy to swap pictures too.

Hopefully this will register with someone and you'll reach out. I'd eventually like to move the conversation to another platform, but I want to make sure you're comfortable with it too. I hope that for anyone who reads this, whether you respond or not, finds what you are looking for and that you have an amazing day.