Since it seems there aren't many women into Asian guys on here, I'll start with this: I'm an Asian guy, 5'9", relatively fit, and relatively attractive (I'd like to think I'm a 7). I'm fine with all ethnicities myself. But I know that's not true for others, so I thought go ahead and save a lot you some time. Also, because I'm Asian, I look a lot younger than I am (people usually guess that I'm in my lower 30s).

I have your typical situation (with a very atypical origin story): married to someone who can now be best described as a roommate. I'm a very affectionate, high libido person whose love language is touch. My wife is the complete opposite. So my hope is to find someone who is more like me when it comes to this.

I've come to accept that finding a match on here is like finding the proverbial needle in the proverbial haystack. And having searched the part of the haystack closest to me for so long, I think it's time to look around the entire haystack now. So you don't have to be local to me (or even close).

So what's my "needle" look like? I'm looking for someone to have a relationship with. I'm fine with starting off digitally (no pun intended). Someone to chat with about anything and everything. Someone to exchange photos with. We have our own lives, which may be great with exception of this one area. And this is where we come in for each other. We fill that one area for each other.

I won't describe exactly how you are ... because in doing so I may discourage a great person from reaching out. (Although, I will say if you get the reference I made in my subject line, that's a good sign.)

But I will describe myself more, because that may help you in deciding if we might have some chemistry.

I'm a gentleman ... a Captain America, so to speak - i.e., neat, clean, well-mannered, Boy Scoutish, no swearing, no drinking, no drugs, nice guy (I don't have a problem with those who do swear or drink. I just don't myself ... although, oddly enough, I do use a couple of swear words while chatting ... but never with my mouth ... and usually with an asterisk somewhere). This part of me (that brings me to a sub like this) is where I'm at odds with myself.

I love watching movies--animation, sci-fi, fantasy, mystery, action, rom coms, chick flicks, to name a few of my favorites. I know a lot of women talk about being attracted to tatted guys with beards. While I have been thinking about getting a single tat around my upper bicep, I don't have any tats right now. And I like being clean shaven. I'm very musical. I love singing and love listening to music. My musical tastes are fairly broad. I like anything with good harmony and a good beat. Pop, hip hop, R&B tend to be my go-tos. Love belting out a good ballad too. :)

What else?

Oh! My dayjob is pretty demanding so I might not be able to chat much during the day. I know some women want a guy who can do more. I cannot at the moment (at least until I get a new job). And with three kids, my weekends can be crazy at times. But I will try to respond within the same day if not within a few hours. And if you catch me at the right time, you'll get some rapid fire messages from me. :)

Also, I believe in Jesus, but struggle to follow (as should be clear by my presence here). I lean on the conservative side, but I'm not your typical conservative either. When I go out to vote, I do like taking materials from both the Dems and the GOP. I don't label myself as either.

Well, I'm out of time now. And I think I laid out enough to help you decide whether or not I'm worth messaging. If you've gotten this far, drop me a line!