Like many of you here, I’m in a relationship with some issues. The issue is that my partner doesn’t want to or likes to do anything that involves physical activity up to and including sex and everything between. After years of physical neglect, I’ve reached a point where I can no longer let my needs continue to go unmet. Essentially my partner and I are roommates with no signs of that changing. I don’t want to bash her or anything like that, but at the same time, I’ve reached a point where I’m tired of seeing everyone happy and sitting here consistently denied what I desire. That being said, I would love to meet a woman who’s either in the same situation as me or who doesn’t mind that I’m in a relationship and looking outside my relationship.

What am I looking for? I have no set expectations or requirements. I would love to have an FWB-type situation, but not a requirement. I’m open to meeting for coffee, going for a walk, kissing, cuddling, and going up to sexual activities if there’s a good connection. Again, I have no expectations for anything and would like to create a no-pressure situation. Should the connection work out and we’re both comfortable, I would also like to explore some kinks I have wanted to explore for a long time but haven’t had a chance to due to my current situation.

I’m 40, in the Midwest area, Iowa to be exact. I have an average body, and I won’t win any “sexiest man alive” awards anytime soon. As for what I look for in a woman, I’m attracted to all body types, except how do I put this politely, larger frame? Sorry, that’s the best way I can say it. I also think there is a thing as too skinny, as in I can see your ribs and hip bones thin, just not for me. I’m also a legs guy, I like legs over ass and breasts any day.

I hope to meet someone and see if we have a connection. If not, that’s ok, but if we do, great! I look forward to talking to you soon!