So where to start ? Ok, I’m a sporty gentleman in my prime living in DC. I have a notable career. I also have a lovely wife and family, very comfortable economy and very few daily headaches to be honest.
So why post here ? Well, I miss my fix as a Dom. Many moons ago I was in a long relationship (4 years) with a nice lady. She was very submissive and over the years we developed a very refined and sophisticated dom/sub relationship. It was a very beautiful and giving relationship. I learned a lot about sub/dom dynamics and techniques. Alas, the relationship didn’t last and I later met my current wife and she has many good qualities but she is not a sub. Like not a sub at all.

So this brings me to this post. I miss the connection with a sub. I miss being a Master and develop that strong emotional and physical link to my sub. So in short I’m looking for a lady who wants to be my sub. It will be purely Dom/Sub-relation and I don’t want a new wife or brake up somebody‘s family. I want a secret partner of crime, a yin to my yang. This will be a clandestine pocket in our lives where we will indulge in our kinks, in a safe and secret way - based on mutual trust - and strong OPSEC.

I imagine that we start getting to know each other first via mail or text and slowly move on to eventually meet in person over a cup of coffee or soft drinks. Only escalating to the next step when we have build up some trust. Both parties can end it without discussion or emotions.

We will be very specific on boundaries, safe words and where the relationship should develop.

As mentioned OPSEC will be of great importance and we will be very careful in our communication and interactions. OPSEC will also be in the center of our logistics and hook-ups. We‘ll meet in hotels or Airbnb‘s - or go on trips together. I’ll cover the costs.

This will be an amazing adventure we will share together, in full secrecy. Looking forward to hear from you sub.

Please PM me ;-)