My first affairs was 10 years ago. She was 10 years older than me. We worked together. I was a manager. She was an office admin. Started with some joking and teasing. Turned to playful teasing and then flirting. Texts that got more risqué as we “tested the waters”. She was in a dead bedroom situation. My situation was rocky. We weren’t looking to change situations, we were enjoying the moment. The first time we hooked up was after work at a shopping center parking lot. In her car. The excitement had our heads spinning. She was so wet. We got our hands down each others pants and exploded pretty quickly. Things progressed for a few weeks like that until we finally did the deed. The buildup was intense. We would then make plans to meet up after work. Shopping center parking lots, kohls fitting room once, park parking lots. Occasional early morning rendezvous. It lasted about a year until I got moved to another NYC office. No more Long Island. I want to find someone who wants to connect and get to know each other. Let’s flirt. Let’s send some naughty texts. If things progress let’s get together to see if there’s some chemistry. Grab a coffee or something. Want the excitement. I travel for work so distance isn’t necessarily an obstacle. Not looking to change situations, yours or mine. Looking forward to connecting.