Hi, and thanks for reading my post. I'm going to be as specific as I can be about what I am looking for, and hopefully that will strike a chord with that one person who will read what I've written and think "Hey! That's me!"

What I am looking for:-

• Aged 30
• Ideally you'll be married and in a similar situation as me (more about that below), or in a long term relationship. If you are single, that's ok too, but in my experience only someone who is also married or in a long term relationship can understand and appreciate my situation, as you'll probably be in a similar situation too.
• I prefer white British or British Indian/Pakistani women.
• You are someone who takes pride in their appearance, but not the kind of person who needs to spend an hour putting "your face on" before you can leave the house!
• You are intelligent, independent minded, and confident in the way you conduct yourself, but with a soft side that sometimes you find you keep hidden more than you would like to
• You are a "the glass is half full" kind of person, even though life has shown you more times than you care to remember, that actually, sometimes, "the glass is half empty"
• You don't take life, or yourself too seriously but at the same time are not that "crazy person" that people avoid!
• You have a lot of passion and warmth, but haven't been able to show that side of your personality as often as you would like
• You're the kind of person that would agree that only a few people know the real you
• You are looking to be reminded of what it's like to be with a man, both emotionally and physically
• You have wants and desires that you want to be able to openly share with someone without fear of judgement, rejection or ridicule.
• You live in or around north west London / south Hertfordshire. The following areas are all close to me... Watford, St Albans, Harrow, Wembley, Kenton, Stanmore, Edgware, Northwood, Pinner, Hatch End, Mill Hill, Elstree, Borehamwood, Bushey, Radlett.

About Me. I'm married. My wife and I are still living together as we have a child but in all other aspects we are no longer a couple.

I am 6'1 tall, medium build, I could do with losing a bit of weight, but am not what you'd describe as "fat". I'm of indian decent, but was born and raised in the UK, and sound as such. I have a full time job, am degree educated, hard working and passionate.

I feel I have a lot to give, and miss being with a woman who makes me feel like a man, and desired. I miss spending time in the company of a woman who I'm attracted to both mentally and physically.

Due to my circumstances, I cannot always meet at the drop of a hat, but if I find someone I like (am I kidding myself here?!) I will make every effort to spend as much time together with that person as and when we both are able to.

If you like what you have read so far, and can identify with what I've written, please message me. I would love to hear from you, and get to know more about you and what you are looking for, maybe we could be a match?

PS I can spot a fake / spammer a mile off, so don't waste our time!!

Thanks for reading. x