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Context: We broke up about a month ago the reason doesn’t matter that’s not what this is about, but anyway I got a text from her and it was a screenshot of our text messages when we were together and it said that I had stole a shirt from a store where I live which I did but I sent it to her in confidence that it would be used maliciously
That’s not the bad part though she’s 3 weeks late on her period, which it’s uncommon for her to be a day to a week late. We had sex regularly throughout our relationship together protected and unprotected ( I always pulled out, I know you can still get pregnant but I always pulled out)
Now after coming to with this information I asked her if she took a test but she told me she was broke. I know this sound cliche but I’m not ready to be a father I can’t be one, I’m not responsible enough and I don’t have the money or the time for a kid right now.
I don’t this it’s a coincidence that she bring me both of this information at this time, is there anything I should do?
TLDR: My ex might be trying to baby trap me.
u gotta deal with the consequences of your actions, sorry man. she isn't "baby trapping" you, you got her pregnant.
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yea even though that happened, you still have to deal with it. you got her pregnant, that's your baby, you have to take responsibility. sorry dude. and pay for a pregnancy test for her, they're cheap. it's better to know sooner rather than later, so she can take prenatal vitamins if it's positive (and if it's negative then you get to stop worrying).