Wasn't sure what to even call this post. I am sort of frantic brained at the moment and I just need some advice. So here I am.

Just some reference:
About 5 years ago me and my ex-fiance broke up. It was not under good circumstances. He went to jail . I had to become independent of him and my life changed forever. I had moved hundreds of miles away from family for him. I relyed on him for just about everything at that point. I had no friends or family where I lived though I did make some. (Which I still have today and I am so thankful for) I didn't have a bank account, I didn't have a car of my own. It was pretty bad.

Now that you know that. After getting out of jail he contacted me three years ago saying he had some very sentimental things. I was pretty blunt and forward with him via email that if he did infact have my things I would like to know what they were, and to give me a time and public place to meet to pick it up. That convo didnt go well and I shut it down after he had said he knew where I lived. (I had moved away to another city 45 mins from where we had lived and never told him) I moved away about 4 hours and then eventually moved again 5 hours away from where we had previously lived. One major reason was I was afraid he would try and find me.

Well, the other day I get an email from him. It was a time, a place, and a public place to meet him. This is 3 years after the original email, at least 5 years since we had broken up, and 5 hours away from where we had lived together. The location isnt too terribly far from where I am located so I am pretty sure he knows I live in this area.

I lost my shit. Unlike the previous times I am now at my permanent home. I bought a house, not renting an apartment and I am terrified he is going to find where I live. I am obviously not going to meet him. I am having a friend go to go get my stuff. If he doesnt give it to them, I know that this was a ploy to try and do something to me.

Is there something else I could do to get my stuff back without having to meet with him? It's hielooms from my grandfather that he supposedly has and I would really really like them back. Should I be calling the cops for potential stalking? My brain is bouncing off the walls.

Also, before the potential comments of can you live without them? The answer is obviously yes. HOWEVER if there is even potential that he still has this stuff I would like to take the safest route in getting them back without letting him back into my life. I don't own a lot of things, even now and especially not hierlooms from my grandfather.