On phone so sorry it'll all be merged... So as the title says I think my (24 nb) partners (23 nb) friend (23 m) has a crush on me and I think I've ruined friendships. So for context me and my partner had a bad patch but we worked things out. During the bad patch I spoke to my friend who is also my partners friend. I told then what my partner said and they told me "they don't deserve you!" When me and my partner fixed things I told then about what the friend said and they got a little frustrated because the friend had been comforting my partner and was acting really 2 faced. We came to the conclusion, because the friend isn't usually like this, that he has a crush on me and is trying to split us up because this isn't like him AT ALL!!! The friend was also acting really overly friendly, holding my hand and putting his head on my shoulder and the way he was sitting when I saw him alone last is very different from how he sits when my partner is around? Almost open with his legs spread in a 90° angle with one leg on the sofa facing towards me? His body language just screamed flirtatious! I feel like I've ruined a friendship because my partner is upset that the friend is acting this way. What do I do? Do I talk to the friend?