I just had my 30th birthday. I have never dated or had sex with anyone. At first it was due to not being comfortable around people and them touching me and the fact that whenever someone flirted with me, I was convinced they were making fun of me due to years of bullying through school and university. I was extremely overweight until about 25 (320lbs).

I am feeling a lot more comfortable in myself the past couple of years since I've lost the weight and moved countries and want to start dating or just go on tinder for fun. The only thing stopping me is the embarrassment that I've never had full sex. Fooling around with girls and men l, and sex toys only.

I feel like I just have to go out and get super drunk and find someone 🙈

What should I do? Should I tell the person any of this? Or just fake it until I make it? The person would have to be comfortable with scars as I lost half my body weight and had an extensive tummy tuck to get rid of the skin.