How do I cope with my own depression and anxiety while my partner is depressed. It’s taking a huge toll on me We live together at his parents due to money issues at the moment and he’s currently pretty depressed because we don’t have jobs at the moment due to somethings that happened we are looking though. He feels like he can’t provide and gets depressed then sleeps all day. He becomes irritable and upset at everything I say or do which is hard on me because I’m trying so hard right now like I cleaned our whole room which had at least 3 weeks worth of trash and laundry with no help even though I had been begging for help for days now. I bought him a book that he needed to get his mhic license and he got upset because I wanted him to at least look at it because I spent my own money on it when he honestly hasn’t gone out of his way to do anything for me in a while like get me flowers or just show me affection or do things like the little things. I can feel myself slipping into depression as I’ve literally eaten nothing today and I feel just tired. I know I can’t save him but what can I do to help or make things better between us. Because right now I feel like we are falling apart like there’s no love and all I wanna do is give up nowadays