My gf has a schnauzer. This schnauzer is part of the family, super spoiled and I love her. Im always attentive, i sometimes send money for food, groomers or sometimes even play with her. So today I took her 2 Starbucks pupp-achinos.

Everything was good im talking to my in law and my gf, when the schnauzer comes to my lap i tried picking her up and she cried so loud. Mind you, I wasn’t being rough or anything plus shes a bit heavy. My mother in law and my gf both said “ Aaaaaaaah be careful” and I simply got so embarrassed I started turning red and I apologized right after. I have PTSD so she shouted right in my ear so i put her down and I stayed quiet. I was upset that they would even say to be careful and second my ear drum was pulsing. My gf got mad because I changed my attitude and said I’m embarrassing for us to go home because I ruined the day with my facial expressions and for simply changing my energy. Im going through alot in life rightnow and they both know it.. Am i wrong? I didn’t get any comfort after the dog whined, not even a “Its OK”