Me (American) ex (german) are divorced and currently have a 5 year old. We settled for child support at $600, i would asume all debt and I would allow her to move back to Germany with the kid where she would collect kindergeld. Given that she's in Germany and pays in euros, I've been giving her $2k monthly for the past year, since I make a decent wage. Recently she's sent me a message telling me how she was struggling due to the inflation in Germany and was asking if I could send more money. I didn't have an issue, but then come to find out this money is being used for traveling. When I asked her about it, her response was don't you want our child to have a happy childhood?"

She works, and I asked her how much she gets paid a month, but she tells me it's none of my business as she doesn't ask how much I make. In my mind, I want to tell her to figure it out herself, and just send $600. But at the same time I want what relationship I'm able to have with my son and not have her say bad things about me.

WWYD?

Any advice is appreciated as I honestly don't know what to do ATM.

Thanks.