Backstory: we have been dating for 3 months, and I have never just shown up at her place before without an invitation. she has no family in the town we live in. She is a very independent woman and has made that clear through action and verbally. Her roommate gave me covid also and I happened to recover much quicker. I have been fine for 2 days and she is still feeling terrible.

Earlier in the day I told her that I wanted to see her even though she is sick and she said that she didn’t want to hangout because she was worried to reinfect me. I told her that I understood and was fine with that. We agreed that we would hangout this coming weekend when she was feeling better. I told her that I was going to get her a covid care package but didn’t tell her I would deliver it myself. The get well package consisted of soup and breadsticks (picked up from Olive Garden on my way to make sure it was hot and fresh), a big pack of Powerade, a box of tea, and flowers.

I thought it would be more meaningful to drop off everything in person so I could just tell her “get well soon” and leave. When I delivered the care package and she saw me and she was very annoyed and told me I was “rude”. I had no intention of trying to hangout or be invited inside. I had zero intention of hanging out or trying to be invited inside. I just wanted to give her the stuff tell her to eat up and feel better then leave. We had been sending pictures and talking all day on snapchat so I figured if she saw me for 2 seconds she wouldn’t mind.

Was me attempting to be thoughtful and caring overstepping boundaries? If so how seriously did I just fuck up? Can I do anything to fix this?