idk if this is the right place for this as I am new to Reddit but do y’all think it would be rude for me to ask my dad to not get me anything for Christmas unless he asks what I want or gets me something I actually need? every holiday wether it’s Christmas my birthday etc he never asks what I want and just gets me a few things I or frankly anyone would never use/need. I appreciate the gesture but it honesty just ends up sitting in my house until I throw it away. if anyone has any advice on how to ask this in the nicest way possible? or maybe I should just suck it up idk I don’t want him to take it the wrong way but I don’t want a bunch of junk sitting in my house anymore