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(16 M) Hi Everyone, so heres the situation: Last year, I went to a tiny catholic school which I transferred out of. This girl also went to the same tiny catholic high school, and she also transferred out to her public school. We go to different schools, and I've been told by others that its like obvious she likes me and I should ask her out ya di yadi ya and we were really good friends. Two weeks ago we were texting like every night until like midnight, and I'm the only person she has pinned on snapchat, I'm her home and lock screen, etc. . Despite this, she leaves me on delivered constantly and when I text it usaully takes hours for her to respond. Last time we hung out, she seemed like nervous and not very enthusiastic. I really do like her, but I feel like I'm the only one making an effort to keep contact. I saw on an influencer's story today something to the extent of "I'm a bad texter means I'm a bad texter with you. I'm busy means I'm too busy for you" etc., and it made me realize that she just doesn't prioritize me whatsoever. I watch her text back her other friends like instantly when she's with me, but I'll be left on delivered for days or hours.
Should I cut her off / stop putting in all the effort I do or talk to her about it ? have any of you been in similar situations? It kind of sucks and can be emotionally draining one day texting for hours than the next being left on delivered constantly. LMK
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