So about a month I (21F) met this guy (22M) and we hit it off right away and have been hanging out pretty much nonstop since. We’re pretty attracted to each other so some stuff happened and we talked about what we both want out of this. When I said that I was ready for a relationship he said that he had just gotten out of one and didn’t want to get attached for awhile, so we decided we’d be friends and stop being intimate. But we still hold hands, kiss, go out on cute “dates”, cuddle, go out with mutual friends, see each other multiple times a week, and he still insists on paying for everything (even in group settings). So I’m just confused because he says he doesn’t want to date yet this is basically dating??