My gf and I have been dating for almost a year now and we took a short break recently after she guilt tripped me at homecoming for not hanging out with her even tho she made no effort to come over to my friends and I.

Her now ex friend came up to me and asked me why I wasn't hanging out with my gf. And I explained that since she jumped at seeing me, my stupid sensitive ass ran off and that I felt like crying after that and that I didn't even wanna come to homecoming because the last dance I went to I left bawling my eyes out because all of my friends ditched me. And that I finally had a good group of friends and that my gf had been the only person I had spent time with for like a year, and I just wanted to hang out with my friends. It was at that point that I started crying (and feeling stupid for doing so)

The rest of the night I was avoiding my gf and she guilt tripped me all night. Luckily I have good friends and they all were there for me and made the rest of my night really really great.

After that I apologized for what happened that night even tho I didn't really think I was the one that needed to apologize. I found out that my gf's friend didn't even tell her I started crying and just told her to go home. After my gf and I worked things out I asked for an apology for the guilt tripping and she told me that she can't give me one because that's just how she gets when she's angry.

After that I decided that if I didn't have an apology from her by the time I went to work I was gonna break up with her. Well I did get an apology and a picture of her crying (seemed sort of manipulative to me). I told her that I think we need to take a break so that she can fix her manipulation and I'll also work on my anger issues.

Well despite a break and break up being very different (to me at least), all of her friends hated me for hurting her even tho I was just doing it because s he e essentially ruined my whole homecoming (and you coud also argue I ruined hers).

Her and I soon got back together but I told her I didn't want anything to do with her friends because I hate them. I know friends side with friends but I think we need to normalize friends telling each other when they're being an ass or when they do something wrong.

Earlier today my gf and I were sending snaps and she told me that she doesn't think she can change that she gets manipulative when she's angry but not to worry because she only does it when she's really upset and hurt.

I saw this as a sort of red flag but I don't want to hurt her.

But at the same time if she fucks up again I'm not giving her another chance.

And I feel like I was sort of pushed to date her? I had been questioning if I liked her for a while when we were still just friends. But for my birthday she gave me a little thing from the dollar tree that said Babe. And I felt like at that point I had to date her.

Idrk what to do.