The title is a bit vague because I didn't know how to sum it up properly so I'll just put this here.

My cousin and two aunts recently got diagnosed with covid. All of them living in the same home. My cousin isn't even quarantining in a room but roams around the house freely which is probably why the rest of the family members were affected.

Now the problem is, they all live in a different house than ours. My uncle (who lives with us) wanted to bring my OTHER uncle (who lives with the rest of the COVID suffering family), so he's protected from COVID. The thing is, I feel uncomfortable letting him stay over at our place for multiple reasons.

Firstly our house is small, and like my cousin, my uncle also freely roams around the house. Secondly, even though they said my uncle is COVID negative, not only did they not show any proof but it could also be possible that he's just not infected YET? It's barely been 2 days since the rest got diagnosed.

My mom is a cancer survivor, although she did get her vaccine, I'm still worried for her. And trust me, nothing I can ever do will educate her or my family. She reluctantly got vaccinated, she's not even keeping distance from my uncle who JUST came from the other house, she literally hugged him. Now he kept his mask and glasses on MY bed while he's taking a shower in my bathroom.

Am I an asshole for just not wanting him to be here? Sure I'd love to help people but like, we're in no position to help them and he was better off at his own home anyways. Now if we get infected, i don't even know what will happen. I feel upset and want to cry because it feels like now I'm not even safe in my own home. My family truly doesn't care, they're all mingling with each other and just being so fucking ignorant. Sorry for the rant, it's just that a huge part of me feels guilty for feeling this way.